I don’t want to overstate the conclusions of this piece. I do not have a horse in this race--I don’t think that the claims of either Mormonism or Christianity are true. What I want to point out is that Mormonism has traditionally argued for an incompatibility between itself and all other religions. Mormonism has carved out it’s own little categorical niche that excludes all other faiths.
The Unexamined Faith
Post-Mormon thoughts on reason, faith, and the LDS Church. The unexamined life, according to Socrates, is not worth living. I think that, similarly, the unexamined faith is not worth believing.
Sunday 28 July 2024
Thursday 2 November 2023
The Book of Mormon: Things that make you go hmmmm.
Book of Mormon: Things that make you go hmmm…
In this essay, I don’t intend to provide any hard
hitting scientific, historical, philosophical, or logical argument against the
Book of Mormon. Instead, I want to take a look at some of the overlooked and
perhaps simpler red flags things found in its pages—things that are often
missed when read with a less critical eye, but upon a closer read, might give
the critical reader pause.
If, for the sake of argument, the Book of Mormon was
not the ancient record it purports to be, but is a construction of Joseph Smith
and his collaborators, one might expect to find items in its pages that offer
clues as to how it was put together. The Church is quite fond of claiming that
the BoM was translated in a matter of 60-90 days.[i]
Things that, when considered, might lead the reader to
wonder if the Book of Mormon was constructed hurriedly, without much time for
editorial revision; constructed in such a manner that some silliness,
absurdities, and implausibilities might have crept in. We might discover that
there are things found in the Book of Mormon that we ought not find if the Book
was the historical compilation it claims itself to be.
When I first thought of putting this list together, I
intended to make a top 10 list. But the more I thought about the items that
needed to be on the list, the more I realized that there was no way on God’s
green Earth that I could limit the list to only 10 items.
As I start to construct this list, there are 25 items
on it, but the number may change as I add or delete—most probably add (!) more
as I go.
Interesting observation: if you try to google any of
these questions related to any of these points, most of the results that you
get are sponsored by the Church. Official Church sites, apologetic sites,
church friendly blogs…The Church is putting a lot of effort (though I’m sure
not spending sacred tithing money) into search engine optimization, ensuring
that people cannot obtain non-LDS approved information about the Book of Mormon
specifically or the Church in general.
In no particular order…
1. “I, Abinadi…”
Book of Mormon
caricature King Noah is ruling during a period of prosperity. As there is
nothing to keep him or his people humble, they have descended into
abominations, wickedness, and whoredoms (Mosiah 11: 20). So, the Lord sends
Abinadi to call them all to repentance, lest they be visited by His anger, and
conquered by their enemies.
As one might imagine,
King Noah does not take kindly to Abinadi’s words of warning:
…Who is Abinadi, that I
and my people should be judged of him, or who is the Lord, that shall bring
upon my people such great affliction? I command you to bring Abinadi hither,
that I may slay him, for he has said these things that he might stir up my people
to anger one with another, and to raise contentions among my people; therefore
I will slay him.” (Mosiah 11: 27, 28. Unnecessary repetition in the original,
would likely not be found in a Book being compiled and edited into a “Reader’s
Digest” version by Mormon.)
Fearing for his life,
Abinadi goes into hiding for two years, after which he is ready to cry
repentance to the people once more. But there’s a problem. King Noah still wants
him dead, so if he were to start preaching, he would be instantly arrested.
That is, unless he has a cunning plan.
If he were to put
on a disguise, he’d be able to speak to the people without anybody
realizing that he is in fact Abinadi. Let’s see how that worked out for him…
And it came to pass that
after the space of two years that Abinadi came among them in disguise, that
they knew him not, and began to prophesy among them, saying: Thus has the Lord
commanded me, saying—Abinadi… (Mosiah
12: 1)
Did you catch the
silliness? To avoid arrest, he hides for two years. Then when he’s ready to
preach again, to avoid arrest, he puts on a disguise. Then, while in disguise,
the first words out of his mouth announce his name.
In my head, when I read that, someone shouts out “Hey everybody! It’s Abinadi! Get him!” and Abinadi mumbles “D’oh!”
Monday 17 July 2023
A Book of Mormon Thought Experiment
Considering that
Tuesday 18 October 2022
Through Tinted Spectacles
In the 1939 classic film “The Wizard of
Oz,” Dorothy visits The Emerald City, so named because virtually the entirety
of the city is, in fact, emerald in color. As you may know, the film is not always
completely faithful to the book upon which it is based. In L. Frank Baum’s
original “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz” (1900), while the walls of The Emerald
City are green, the city itself is not. In the book, upon entry into the city,
everyone is required to wear green-tinted spectacles (explained as an
effort to protect the eyes of the residents from the "brightness and
glory" of the city). These spectacles have the effect of making everything
appear green even though the city is objectively no greener than any
other.
Dorothy
was shocked to learn the truth from the Wizard of Oz: “But isn’t everything
here green?” asked Dorothy. “No more than in any other city,” replied Oz; “but
when you wear green spectacles, why of course everything you see looks green to
you…[M]y people have worn green glasses on their eyes so
long that most of them think it really is an Emerald City…[i]
Given that the reason that the residents of the city believe it to be emerald is the filtering effect of their colored glasses, it follows that if instead of green tinted spectacles, they wore scarlet tinted spectacles, the residents would think they lived in The Scarlet City. If they wore turquoise tinted spectacles, they would believe that they lived in The Turquoise City. If the residents wore magenta tinted spectacles, they would think that they were residents of The Magenta City. And so on…
Thursday 5 May 2022
The LDS mission as a form of Hazing
I have another article in Sunstone Magazine.
The LDS Proselytizing Mission as Hazing.
It is an edited version of a previous blog post by the same name.
Once again, thank you to Stephen Carter for tackling my post and making it so much more coherent, and at least sorta close to the Sunstone word limit.
Saturday 5 March 2022
The Sealed Portion of the Book of Mormon and the Pure Adamic Language
1. The
Sealed Portion of the Book of Mormon and the Pure Adamic Language
LDS scripture maintains that Adam and Eve had a language
that was pure and undefiled, a language both spoken and written (Moses 6:5, 6).
This was the one and only language until the time of the Tower of Babel
(Genesis 11:1-9; Mosiah 28:17, Journal of Discourses 3: 100 (Orson Pratt)).
You’ll recall that the Jaredites (Book of Mormon people
whose history comprises the Book of Ether) descended from people who were
present at the tower of Babel Mosiah 28:17, Ether 1:33). You’ll further recall
that the central event of the story of the Tower of Babel is that God made
everybody forget their (Adamic) language, “counfounded” their languages, and
scattered the people (Genesis 11: 7-9; Ether 1:33).
Jared somehow had foreknowledge of what God was about to do, so asked his brother to ask God to spare them and their friends (Ether 1: 33-37). God listened and agreed. Consequently, the language that the Jaredites carried to the new world was the Adamic language—unreadable to the Nephites who discovered the 24 gold Jaredite plates (the as yet unnamed Book of Ether) and Urim and Thummim amongst the ruins of the final Jaredite battle (Mosiah 8: 8-11).[i]
Wednesday 5 January 2022
The Ridiculous Car Purchase Analogy.
There is an analogy, often employed by defenders of the Latter-day
Saint faith, when trying to divert attention away from critics of the faith.
(…and to be clear, I have used the names Ford and
Chevrolet randomly, for the purposes of the analogy—not as any reflection on
the cars or companies in any real sense)
It is some variation of the following:
If you were considering buying a Ford, would you go to
the Chevrolet dealership for information?
It is an analogy so flawed it beggars belief that
anybody with a capacity to reason would ever propose it.
The more appropriate analogy would be:
If you were considering
buying a Ford, and discovered
(i)
that 75%[i] of Ford buyers returned
their vehicle within the first year, never to buy another Ford, and
(ii)
that the Ford corporation was trying to
disparage those who returned their cars, saying that there was something wrong
with the car owner rather than something wrong with the car, and
(iii)
that the Ford corporation did not want
potential buyers to know why almost all previous buyers returned their cars…
…would it not be
incumbent on you to find out why almost everybody returned their cars, why the car
company was disparaging the returners, and what it was that the company did not want you to
find out prior to your purchase?
[i] LDS Statistician David
Stewart suggest a 20-30% retention rate for new converts (http://cumorah.com/lawoftheharvest.pdf
pp. 257-280), and GA Historian Marlin K. Jensen puts it at about 25% (https://www.reuters.com/article/us-mormonchurch-idUSTRE80T1CM20120131)
Tuesday 28 December 2021
You don't need salvation. Part 1: Spiritual Ransomware
What follows stands alone as an essay
At some point there will be a part 2. But for now. enjoy part 1.
[Inuit[i]]: 'If I did not know about
God and sin, would I go to hell?'
Priest:
'No, not if you did not know.'
[Inuit]:
'Then why did you tell me?'
Annie
Dillard[ii]
You don’t need salvation
Part 1. Ransomware
It seems that in
Mormonism (and to a lesser degree in the broader category of Christianity),
there is a proviso for those who die without hearing the gospel.
Proviso?
Accepting Jesus (and
whatever that may entail) is necessary for us to avoid an eternal punishment in
the form of being separated from the presence of God. That hardly seems fair to
those who don’t accept Jesus because of an accident of birth. A majority of
persons who have ever lived did not accept Jesus due to living their lives in a
time and/or place in which they never had a chance to hear the gospel.
The proviso I mention is for these people.
For example, 2
Nephi 9:25 tells us that “…where there is no law given there is no
punishment; and where there is no punishment there is no condemnation;
and where there is no condemnation the mercies of the Holy One of Israel have
claim upon them, because of the atonement; for they are delivered by the power
of him.” (italics added)
Similarly, Mormon 8: 22 tells us that “…all little
children are alive in Christ, and also all they that are without the law.
For the power of redemption cometh on all them that have no law; wherefore,
he that is not condemned, or he that is under no condemnation, cannot repent;
and unto such baptism availeth nothing.” (italics added)
St. Paul seems to be in agreement with the Book of
Mormon on this matter, asking rhetorically “How then shall they call on him in whom they have not
believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and
how shall they hear without a preacher…” (Romans 10:14), and suggests something
akin to the provision spoken of above: “…but sin is not imputed when there is
no law.” (Romans 5:13). And although “through the law we become conscious of
sin…” (Romans 3:20), those that die without the law, per se, will still
be judged on essentially being a good person (if I’m reading St. Paul right): “it
is not the hearers of the law who are righteous before God, but the doers
of the law who will be justified. For when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by
nature do what the law requires…They show that the work of the law is
written on their hearts.” (Romans 2:13-15). (italics added)
Mormonism has an explanation for why those who die without hearing the gospel are not condemned. In 1st Peter, Chapter 3, we learn that Jesus, “being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit: By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in prison; (v. 18, 19, italics added).
Monday 26 April 2021
That time my five-year-old brother was told Satan is out to get him…
That time my five-year-old brother was told Satan is out to get him…
Monday 7 September 2020
LDS sexual impropriety and the externalization of the locus of moral control
Revised July 5th 2021
It started simply enough…
My daughter had recently returned from a
vacation, visiting her boyfriend who was studying at one of the LDS
post-secondary institutions. “Dad,” she told me, “they are all smoking pot and
having sex with each other. All of them.”
But then…
That same day there was a headline in our
local news about how an LDS bishop had sexually abused children, when in his
late teens, and had confessed to it while on a mission—from which he was
not sent home after the revelation. The judge in the trial concluded
that the LDS Church had covered up this abuse. I reflected that this was not
the first such headline that I had seen in recent years in my largely LDS neck
of the woods.
Still that same day I checked into
Facebook and was struck the number similar stories coming from my LDS and XLDS
friends.
There was the recent high profile case of
Joseph Bishop, the former President of the Provo Utah Missionary Training
Center (MTC) who admitted to police that he engaged in sexual
improprieties (allegedly including a sexual assault) with Sister Missionaries
under his stewardship, and who claimed to be a predator and sex addict.[i] An
official statement from the LDS Church indicates that the Church never knew of
the misconduct until 2010, some 26 years after the offending events, but his
statement to the police indicates that Bishop confessed his actions to his
ecclesiastical leaders immediately, yet served out his complete tenure as MTC
President.[ii]
One of Bishop’s alleged victims sued him and the Church. The case against
Bishop was dropped due to the statute of limitations having long past, however,
at that time, the judge ruled that the case against the Church for fraudulent
non-disclosure and fraudulent concealment could move forward.[iii]
There is the recent high profile case of
former BYU instructor and director of three LDS Temple Endowment ceremony films
(and cofounder of the Sundance Film festival), Sterling Van
Wagenen, who admitted to molesting a 13 year old boy[iv]
After pleading guilty to and twice being convicted of molesting under age
girls, Van Wagenen is serving 6 years to life.[v]
For his horrific crimes, Van Wagenen was disfellowshipped for two years from
the LDS Church.[vi]
A BYU professor charged with sexually
abusing students.[vii]
A Utah police officer/bishop involved in human trafficking[viii],
Sunday School teachers involved in child sexual abuse[ix],
Bishops and others in positions of trust involved in sexual abuse and child
pornography[x].
In recent years it has a been reported
that, per capita, Utah has the US’s highest rates of subscription to
pornography websites[xi],
and that “…Utah fosters unique cultural factors that may leave those with
susceptibility at an even greater predisposition to using and abusing
pornography.”[xii]
As of 2015, the popularity of “incest porn”[xiii]
was growing faster in Utah than in any other state[xiv].
And Utah has what could be described as a child pornography epidemic[xv] that,
when discovered/confessed, the LDS Church doesn’t necessarily report to the
police,[xvi]
and there seems to be cases where this child pornography is being treated
lightly by the courts in Utah.[xvii]
It has been reported that rape occurs at a
higher rate in Utah than in the rest of the USA[xviii],
and that although Utah is #8[xix] in
the US for overall rates of abuse, it is #1 in sexual abuse[xx],
with one in five children in Utah experiencing sexual abuse[xxi]. And
there is some concern that the LDS Church is perhaps more concerned with protecting
its image than it is with actually combating the problem[xxii].
The Church recently released a letter, signed by the First Presidency,
instructing local leaders to not participate in any court cases without first
consulting the Church’s lawyers.[xxiii]
And although the Church has a hotline for local leaders to report sexual abuse, it seems to be manned by lawyers from the Church’s legal alter-ego, the law firm of Kirton McConkie.[xxiv]
Kirton McConkie?
One of Kirton McConkie’s founding partners was one Bryan Lloyd Poelman, at one point the chairman of an anti-pornography group called Citizens for Positive Community Values. While a Stake President, Poelman was caught in the act with a prostitute. Although Poelman was excommunicated, Apostle Boyd K. Packer assured Poelman’s stake that “Whatever else will take place, there will be no eternal consequences.” (italics added). He went on to serve a seniors mission and to serve as a worker in the Salt Lake City Temple.
Kirton McConkie also employs one Thomas L. Monson (son of former LDS
President Thomas S. Monson), who was fired from his job as vice-president of
American Investment Bank, then quietly settled the related sexual harassment
suit against him.[xxv]
I reflected on my daughter’s observation
about her friends at her boyfriends’ LDS School[xxvi],
the local story about the bishop, and the stories referenced above, and
wondered if there could be something in LDS theology and culture that somehow
facilitates what appears to be an inability to control one’s sexual
proclivities.
Although this post is focused primarily on
LDS culture and theology, the reader may notice that many of the observations made
here can be applied to broader categories of religious morality.
Thursday 28 May 2020
Nephi’s Alleged “Courage”
I would like to start by suggesting that if a voice in your head tells you to kill somebody, you ought to ignore that voice. If that voice tells that you ought to chop the head off of a person that is so drunk as to be unconscious, even if the unconscious drunk has property that you would like to steal, you still ought to ignore that voice.
But what if that voice in your head asserts that it is the voice of the Spirit of God? If The Almighty deigns to speak to such as you or I, surely we ought not ignore His voice…
I cannot speak for everyone, but if I had a voice in my head telling me to kill someone, even if (especially if?) that voice claimed to be the Spirit of God Himself, my most likely course of action would be to seek immediate treatment for mental illness.
However, in the LDS church, children are taught to sing a song that celebrates the very event described above. And even though it is in reference a story about following a voice in your head telling you to behead an unconscious drunk in order to facilitate stealing his property, it is sung for the purposes of teaching those children to always listen to God, to trust Him, and to be obedient to His will.
Sunday 19 April 2020
The Curious Date of the Nephite Apostasy
In what might be quite the coincidence, the apostasy amongst the people of the Book of Mormon (BoM), specifically the Nephite people, happened in the same year as the formulation of the Nicene Creed.
Before we discuss reasons as to why this is a curious coincidence, let’s first address how one would arrive at the date of the Nephite apostasy.
Friday 8 November 2019
LDS Epistemology in Bullet Points
- Ether 3:19
2. You have to WANT to believe in the proposition/principle.
- Alma 32:27
(BTW, Alma 32's contribution to LDS epistemology is discussed further here)
3. You have to ACT as though you believe in the proposition/principle
- Alma 32: 28-34
Thursday 3 October 2019
Dear Elder Oaks
Dear Elder Oaks,
You seem to be operating under the misapprehension that you think that you believe that “The…meaning of ‘gender…’ as used in church statements and publications…is biological sex at birth.”
Let me help you with that, brother. LDS theology does not require anything like the notion gender is determined by biological sex at birth.
Saturday 17 August 2019
On the Non-Infinity of the LDS Conception of God
Saturday 20 April 2019
Sin Does Not Exist (in Sunstone)
It is a version of Zeus’s Thunderbolt, Euthyphro’s Dilemma, and the Eliminative Reduction of Sin, which was quite lengthy.
Credit to Stephen Carter for an excellent job editing it down to a length that would fit, and for suggesting and making revisions to make it more Sunstone friendly.
Edited to add--Stephen Carter described the essay as "a game changer." One reader on Reddit commented "Whoa. That sunstone article was intense. Pretty much moved me from nondenominational Christian to agnostic in the space of half an hour or so."
Thursday 11 April 2019
Leave it Alone? No. Just No.
Thursday 21 March 2019
Put Paid to the Lie: Equal Treatment of LDS LGB's
Sunday 10 March 2019
"Speaking as a man" is not a good defense
Sunday 25 November 2018
The Unexamined Faith. Chapter One.
Saturday 8 September 2018
The Church of Milquetoast
Saturday 25 August 2018
Alma's Theory of Knowledge
Thursday 2 August 2018
Zeus’s Thunderbolt, Euthyphro’s Dilemma, and the Eliminative Reduction of Sin
Tuesday 13 February 2018
Snowblind
Wednesday 13 December 2017
The LDS Proselytizing Mission as Hazing
Thursday 19 October 2017
Abinadi: The Homer Simpson of the Book of Mormon
Wednesday 27 September 2017
The Dunning-Kruger Effect and Missionary Age
Monday 11 September 2017
What does the statement "The (LDS) Church is true" even mean...?
Tuesday 29 August 2017
An LDS “Epistemology” of Apostasy
Wednesday 23 August 2017
Satan: MVP of the Plan of Salvation
Tuesday 25 July 2017
CTR Rings: The Embodiment of a Misguided Categorical Imperative
CTR Rings: The Embodiment of a Misguided Categorical
Imperative
In this piece I intend to critique the LDS concept of CTR
(Choose the Right) by suggesting that it poorly mimics the Categorical
Imperative. This is not to suggest that the authors of the LDS Sunday School
curriculum had Kantian moral theory in mind while producing their lessons. I
suspect the convergence of ideas is accidental. I will briefly elaborate what
the Categorical Imperative is, and argue that although CTR might attempt, at a
surface level, to function in the same way as the Categorical Imperative, it
fails to meet the basic requirements of the concept, largely because CTR
reduces to a form of Divine Command theory, which can be described as analogous
to a harmful authoritarian parenting style.
If, as I did, you grew up LDS, you may well understand
when I say that I was thrilled to receive my CTR ring (and CTR Box—is that even
a thing anymore?). In my family and congregation it was a minor rite of
passage, the final mile marker before that all important rite of passage coming
at the age of eight—Baptism.
If you did not grow up LDS, a brief note of
explanation. CTR was the name of the LDS Sunday School class for children aged
(if I recall correctly) 6 or 7 years old, and CTR Sunday School class was
partially intended as a baptism preparation class.
40-ish years later, I’m not nearly as enamoured with
the whole CTR concept as I was in those formative years. Significantly, I find
myself not as enamoured as so many of my adult
CTR ring wearing friends and neighbors seem to be.
The acronym “CTR” stands for Choose the Right, and my non-enamourement is rooted in the sort of conceptual
statement that “choose the right” is intended to be. The short version is that
the phrase “Choose the right” is intended to be overarching words to live by; an
all-encompassing moral guideline to apply at all times.
“Choose the Right” is, in my estimation, a weak
attempt at something like a Kantian Categorical Imperative. I say “something
like…” because I suspect that it is somewhat less than probable that the people
who applied the phrase “choose the right” to the Sunday School curriculum were
grounded in Kantian moral theory. Although CTR and the Categorical Imperative
might share a superficial resemblance, the thought processes that lead to them
are entirely different.
The idea of the Categorical Imperative is the
centerpiece of Immanuel Kant’s (1785) theory of ethics. Kant held that morality
shouldn’t be subject to changing circumstances or calculations. His focus was
on duties and obligations. And he thought, rightly or wrongly, that it ought to
be possible to distill all moral duties and obligations into a single principle.
If it is possible, as Kant hoped, to sum all of morality into one single
statement, then that statement would necessarily be a moral principle that can
be applied by everybody in every circumstance. If it did not apply to every person
and every circumstance, then the attempted distillation could not be said to
capture all of morality. A statement that
succeeds in capturing all of morality
would be an imperative (instruction, directive, order, rule) and it
would be categorical (without exception, universal, “always…”)—A
Categorical Imperative.
This, in a nutshell, is what “Choose the Right” tries
to be—an all-embracing moral guideline that we ought to apply throughout our
lives in all circumstances.
To illustrate the notion of the Categorical
Imperative, do a little thought experiment.
If you, gentle reader, were to gather all of your
moral rules and principles and intuitions and guidelines, and you tried to
encapsulate them into a single statement, what would that statement be? You’d
probably end up with something akin to the Golden Rule (i.e. do unto others as
you’d have done unto you). That is the sort of thing that Kant was looking for.
Regardless of the ethical predicament, one can apply the Golden Rule. Steal the
candy bar? Report a tax dodger? Give a fiver to the homeless guy who approached
you outside McDonald’s? In virtually any situation you can answer your ethical
question by consulting the Golden Rule. That, in a nutshell, is what the idea
of the Categorical Imperative is trying to do. Is there a moral principal (the
imperative) that can be applied without exception (categorical)?
For reasons beyond the scope of this piece, Kant
didn’t think that the Golden Rule quite worked as the Categorical Imperative. I
use it simply for the purpose of illustrating the sort of thing he was trying
to arrive at.
In trying to formulate the Categorical Imperative,
there were some basic errors that Kant wanted to avoid. It is necessary, on one
hand, to avoid making the rule too specific. If the imperative was too
specific, it could not be categorical. Principles like “always say please and
thank you,” or “don’t beat your children,” or “honesty is the best policy”
might be great rules to live by, but because they have specific content, they
only apply in certain situations and to specific persons. They are not
universally applicable, i.e. they are not categorical.
On the other hand, it would be easy to broaden the
scope of your imperative in such a way as to be content-less. If your rule is
“always do the right thing” it really doesn’t help you decide what the right thing actually is. If
your guideline is (as in the immortal words of St. Bill and St. Ted) “be
excellent to each other” you still need to specify what such interpersonal
excellence would amount to before the guideline has any force as an imperative.
Compare and contrast “always do the right thing” and
“be excellent to each other” with the Golden Rule and you’ll spot the
difference. The Golden Rule is instructive because it suggests what your choice
or action ought to be, whereas the former statements are not suggestive because
they require you to add in extra
content defining the right thing and interpersonal excellence. Because
statements like “always do the right thing” and “be excellent to each other”
are not in and of themselves suggestive of correct morality, we could consider
them to be without content, or vacuous.
Therein lies my issue with “Choose the Right.” It has the
form of a Categorical Imperative, but it suffers from the latter of the two
errors described above. Because it is not suggestive of what “the right” is,
“Choose the Right” is, at best, a vacuous Categorical Imperative.
If one adopts “choose the right” as a rule to live by,
then one is left with a content-less moral guideline, and in order to
“choose the right” one will consequently necessarily be dependent upon an
outside source to supply that content. Those of us who grew up LDS and accepted
the maxim “choose the right” became dependent upon the LDS church to supply us
with the knowledge of what our correct and moral choices and actions ought to
be. We externalized our moral locus of control.
Normal psychological development follows a fairly
standard pattern. Jean Piaget (1932) and Lawrence Kohlberg (1958), for example,
describe moral psychological development as a set of stages. In the earliest
stages, our source of morality is the rules that are imposed upon us by an
authority. To the developing mind of a child, such rules are objective, fixed
and unchanging, and the moral worth of an action can be determined by the resultant
reward or punishment. Initially right and wrong is determined by punishment and
reward, and a “what’s in it for me” way of looking at the consequences of behaviors.
In the very egocentric mind of a child, the wrongness of hitting your sister
amounts to nothing more than the fact that the child gets a time-out.
In normal healthy moral development, constraint by
external sources of control is our primary source of morality only during
the earliest stages—typically while we are still in the single digits. As we
are steeped in a moral environment, those lessons from childhood become an
internalized 2nd nature, and we no longer ask ourselves “will I be
punished if I get caught; what is the rule on this?” as we have internalized
our ideas of right and wrong (our conscience), and act accordingly. One’s
motivation is no longer avoidance of punishment or shaming, but an internalized
understanding of right and wrong. As our childhood egocentrism is replaced by
an understanding that others have their own perspectives, we begin to derive
morality from social emotions such as empathy. As horizons broaden from self to
family to society, we learn to derive morality from duties and obligations,
from social emotions, and from calculations of what will maximize the good and
minimize harm and suffering.
Good “authoritative” parenting involves moving a child
away from such obedience based morality through induction—sort of “inducting” a developing child into the club of
adulthood. Authoritative parents explain why an act is good or bad, encouraging
a child to reason through processes (considering consequences, duties, empathy,
calculations of happiness v. suffering) that lead them to arrive at good moral
conclusions. Those raised in an inductive family environment learn the skills
to reason through future ethical challenges.
“Authoritarian” parenting, on the other hand, does not
move a child away from an obedience type morality. The authoritarian parent
simply dictates the rules, and the child is expected to comply because the
rules are the rules. Good and correct behavior does not flow from an
internalized developing moral capacity, but from a desire to avoid the punitive
consequences from the authoritarian parent. Without the ability to reason
through moral issues, someone from the authoritarian home is less equipped to
face future unique ethical dilemmas.
On literally every measure, those who grow up in
authoritative (inductive) homes outperform those who grow up in authoritarian
(obedience and punishment), whether it’s psychological health (Lamborn, et al,
1991; Shucksmith, Hendrey & Glemdinning, 1995), grades and school success
(Steinberg, et al, 1991), or healthy relationship with parents (Mackay, Arnold
& Pratt, 2001). Those who grow up in authoritarian (obedience, punishment)
suffered in academic performance (Melby & Conger, 1996); an authoritarian
punitive style of discipline is linked with stress and depression (Wagner,
Cohen & Brook, 1996; Turner & Finkelhor, 1996), substance abuse
(Dobkin, Trembley, & Sacchitelle, 1997), delinquency (Peiser & Heaven.
1996), and future marital violence (Straus & Yodanis, 1996). There may not
be many (any?) absolutes in the social sciences, but the superiority of
authoritative to authoritarian parenting by every standard is as close to a
universal as you will find.
A salient difference deriving from inductive vs.
obedience parenting has to do with the behavior that occurs when there is no
longer a threat of punishment or shame.
To offer a simple hypothetical example, let’s say that
you desire that your children have a healthy attitude toward alcohol. The
authoritative parent can start out simply forbidding a child from drinking, as
the child starts to question, the parent can explain that drinking is a
grown-up decision, advancing to explaining the biological, psychological, and
social consequences of consumption. The authoritarian parent might simply
forbid consumption, then when the child starts to ask why, explain that it’s
because “you will be grounded if you drink.”
Now, the hypothetical adolescents from the above
scenarios leave home for the first time to go to university. Which one of them
is most likely to engage in risky drinking behaviors? It ought to be virtually self-evident
that when friends try to get the young persons to engage in risky behaviors,
the one raised in the authoritative inductive home is equipped with the
internal skillset to make a wise decision, while the one raised in the
authoritarian obedience home is no longer constrained by fear of consequences
from their parents.
So although the authoritarian parent might act in good
faith, fully believing that they are doing right by their child, instilling
morality by enforcing strict rules through punishment for non-compliance, in
effect, their actions have the opposite effect to what they hope. They are more
likely than the authoritative parent to raise children lacking an internal
moral compass, and are consequently more likely to follow paths that the parent
would judge to be immoral.
I hope that the reader is at this point drawing an
analogy between authoritarian parenting, and “Heavenly Father’s” CTR obedience
based morality. Just as the child’s morality is derived entirely from the
parental lawgiver, many a true believer explicitly believes that if there is no
heavenly lawgiver, there is simply no morality(Alma 42); and just as the child
equates the moral worth of an action with the reward or punishment, so the
believer believes that without the threat of punishment in the afterlife then
“anything goes” in mortality. Instead of moving us through the normal healthy
stages of moral development, the LDS church repeatedly tells us that in our
“Heavenly Father’s” plan “Obedience is the first law of heaven.” (for example: Chapter
17 of Doctrines of the Gospel Student Manual.)
If one willfully cedes his or her morality to an
external source to which one must be obedient, then by default, morality is not
internalized. One’s normal moral development is stunted, and one’s morality is
akin to that of the child who requires an adult to tell them not to take the
toy from the other child, and who requires threat of punishment to not take the
toy from the other child.
By instilling “Choose the Right,” the Church hijacks and
diverts an individual’s moral development, substituting one’s moral compass
with obedience to the Church.
Because “Choose the Right” externalizes the source of
morality to the Church, and so ostensibly to God, it in fact reduces to a
version of the Divine Command theory of morality in which the moral worth of an
action is derived from whether the act is done in compliance to the supposed
will of God. For the CTR graduate, morality does not flow from an internalized
moral standard (or conscience), but from an externalized set of relatively
arbitrary rules. Instead of developing a set of moral intuitions, feelings, and
guidelines, the CTR graduate acts out of obedience to the extant rules of the Church.
Let’s momentarily concede, for the purposes of
argument, that God indeed exists, that the LDS Church is His church, and that
the current rules of the Church are indeed the divine command of God.
How many times have you heard (or said) something
along the lines of “if there is no such thing as God there is no such thing as
right or wrong” or “if there is no threat of punishment in the afterlife, then
anything is permissible?” I reject this explicitly and am of the considered
opinion that even if God exists, His divine command is utterly irrelevant to
morality (Bellrock, 2019).
I don’t beat my kids. Regardless of whether God is
real or not, I don’t beat my kids. Does my non-abusiveness have anything to do
with fear of punishment in the afterlife? Nope. I suspect that there is no
afterlife, yet still I don’t beat the kids. Why not? Because I have an internalized
morality that is entirely independent of obedience and fear of punishment. I
have empathy. If I caused my children suffering I would feel their suffering
with them. I have a sense of duty, to violate that sense to duty to my children
feels wrong. It feels wrong independently of whether or not there is a God who
has commanded me to not abuse my children.
Why does God tell us not to beat our kids?
The very fact that that question makes sense spells
trouble for the Divine Command theory of morality. A believer may say that God
says not beat our kids because it would cause them suffering, or because we
have a duty to raise healthy happy individuals. The fact that there is an
answer to the question means that the believer is saying that the wrongness of
child abuse is not derived from the divine command, but the divine command is issued
due to the wrongness of child abuse.
Similarly, God says “Thou shalt not kill.”
Why?
Because
killing is wrong.
Therefore God says killing is wrong because it’s wrong. Murder is intrinsically wrong. Its wrongness is
not because God says it. Murder is wrong independent
of and prior to the will of God.
It is possible that the Israelites of the Exodus were so amoral that they needed God to tell
them that murder (and stealing, and adultery, etc.) is wrong. And God,
observing that they could not figure out the wrongness of murder for themselves,
commanded them to not kill. The morality of murder is still not derived from the commandment, per se; rather, the
commandment is given because of the wrongness of murder.
If it is true that the rightness or wrongness of
murder or child abuse stems entirely from the will of God, then any intrinsic
value in empathy or duty is irrelevant to the immorality of those actions.
Furthermore, if the rightness or wrongness of murder
or child abuse is derived only from the will of God, then God could say
precisely the opposite (Beat your kids, murder is peachy, shag thy neighbor),
and the exact opposite would be equally moral (because it would be the divine
command). However, this possibility seems somehow self-evidently nonsensical.
How could God give the opposite 10 Commandments, and yet they be on equal moral
footing with the first set? It offends one’s sense of reason. It is absurd.
Consequently, I suggest we ought not recognize any
moral value in anything that God says that is not of value independently of His
saying it. If God says thou shalt tie thine right shoe before thine left, or
thou shalt not see the inside of heaven, it means that He is multiplying
unnecessary arbitrary rules for the sake of exacting obedience, and it makes
God capricious.
So it seems that God’s divine commands can fall into
two categories:
First: God gives a divine command because of the rightness or wrongness of an action. If so, then the
rightness or wrongness of an action is prior to and independent of the divine
command, in which case the command is irrelevant to the rightness or wrongness
of that action.
Second: God gives a divine command that is not derived
from the rightness or wrongness of an action, in which case the command is
arbitrary and capricious.
In either case, the divine command is irrelevant to
morality.
Therefore God is irrelevant to morality.
The above discussion takes roughly the same tack as
Socrates who famously asked, in Plato’s Euthyphro (350 BCE), whether it is good
because the Gods command it, or whether the Gods command it because it is good.
When I was a child, I ate vegetables because my mother
made me eat them. Now that I am an adult, I have learned that there is a value
to eating vegetables that is not dependent on whether I am rewarded for eating
them or punished for not eating them. I eat them independent of what my mother
says. My mother might continue to say “eat your veggies” but her saying so adds
no value to my healthy diet. Likewise, I don’t kill, I don’t beat my kids, I
give to the homeless, etc., I do all of these things independently of whether
God will punish or reward me for doing them. God’s command adds no value to my
moral life.
What happens if you, a person with normal moral
development, violates your sense of morality? You have internalized a moral
emotion that tells you that what you did was wrong. You feel guilt. Guilt is
the healthy moral emotion that is derived from your internalized sense of
morality.
On the other hand, what if the person who has not
internalized morality violates one of the moral rules that he or she tries to
live by? Because they have not internalized their sense of right and wrong,
that sense cannot produce the appropriate guilt. Instead, the moral emotion
stems from the fear of punishment or of being found out. The person with an
external locus of morality would be motivated by the avoidance of shame instead
of the avoidance of guilt.
What I see in
Mormonism (though this is by no means limited to Mormonism) is a conflation of
goodness and obedience. Although the external actions of a good person and an
obedient person might be indistinguishable, the moral status of the actions of
the obedient person are not the same as the moral status of the good person.
When making decisions
regarding moral questions, I might be motivated by a calculation of what might
bring the most happiness or minimize suffering for the most people, or I might
be motivated by my sense of compassion or empathy, or by any number of noble
reasons. If, however, I’m motivated by obedience, or by fear of punishment, I
don’t seem quite as honorable. To use the example once again of not beating my
kids, what would you think of me if you knew that the reason I didn’t beat my
kids was that I believed God would punish me in the afterlife if I did? Clearly
the corollary of this is that if I didn’t fear eternal punishment, then there
would be nothing to dissuade me of abusing my little ones. Surely you would
judge me, at best, amoral.
Let’s tie this back
to the authoritarian parents, who, by insisting on obedience and punishment,
fail to instill grown-up moral capacities in their children, and so
accidentally raise children who are more likely
to rebel, as it were, against their parents standards. “Heavenly Father’s” CTR
obedience based morality is likely to have the same effect. If, in the
foundational (CTR attending) years, one is convinced that morality can only be
achieved by acting according to the Church’s dictates, then what happens upon
learning that the LDS church is not as it appears to be?
If the only options
are A and B, and A is wrong, then it must be B. If one hears their entire life
that the only options are (A) morality is derived from the commands of God (LDS
dictates), or (B) without the dictates of the LDS church there is no morality, and
then that person loses faith in the LDS church, they are likely to left with an
insecure sense of morality.
How many have left
the Church, and discovered a void where their moral sensibilities ought to
reside? How many of us have had to struggle, as adults, through developmental
stages that ought to have been navigated during our childhood and adolescence?
How many have had an internal ethical struggle regarding what our attitudes
should be toward perfectly normal consumption of coffee or alcohol? Or figure
out, almost from scratch, what a normal healthy attitude toward sexuality is
supposed to be? Or struggled with eliminating an unhealthy and unproductive
sense of shame because we grew up believing that shame was a noble and primary
moral emotion? As adults, we have had to examine ethical dilemmas—which most
emphatically should not be dilemmas
for an adult—and adjudicate whether our moral attitude toward it is due simply
to being told what our attitude should be, and whether we have to rethink it
through considering duties, obligations, consequences, and normal healthy moral
emotions.
If a person believes
that the only way to be moral is be obedient to the will of God, then there are
some interesting corollaries.
If a person believes
her only reason for not killing, stealing, etc. is the threat of punishment in
the hereafter, she is essentially admitting that she has no intrinsic internal
moral compass, and that consequently if God were not telling her not to, she
would see no reason to not engage in such activities.
Furthermore, it
stands to reason that if the only way to be moral is to be obedient to the will
of God, then the true believer would believe those who lack such a belief to be
morally inferior. You have learned to empathize, to act according to duties, to
calculate suffering and happiness, yet you are morally inferior to one who is
only moral out of fear of punishment? I think not.
So when you attend
that family event at the local chapel and bump into Sister Judgy McJudgypants,
and you tell her that you have left the faith, she just may be literally
incapable of understanding that you have not lost the ability to be a good
person.
So to bring this all
back to the discussion of CTR rings, I despise what they represent:
- A poor attempt at
the categorical imperative
- that makes one
dependent on external sources of morality,
- convincing
individuals that they are incapable of morality in the absence of the Church
- causing dependency
upon the Church
- implying that a
person is capable of a morality that is limited to the extent that they want to
avoid being caught and shamed;
- An external locus
of moral control
- indicating stunted
moral growth;
- The priority of
obedience over intrinsic goodness
- making independent
moral reasoning improbable.
So, when I see an
adult wearing a CTR ring, I see a person with a stunted moral development, who
thinks, like a child, that morality is derived from obedience, that the worth
of an action is determined by whether they are punished for it, who does not
see the intrinsic wrongness of murder and rape and child abuse and lying and
theft, and who thinks that they are morally superior to me because I have
developed past the earliest developmental stages while they have not.
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