(Rather than accept the terminology
widely accepted by gay persons themselves, the LDS Church typically uses its
own term to describe LGB persons, “Same Sex Attracted,” or (SSA). In this post
I will generally eschew the label placed upon our LGB brothers and sisters by
the Church, and simply use the more common “LGB,” or “gay.”)
Recently, in the midst of a conversation
about gay relatives, a co-worker casually mentioned that the Church treats its “same
sex attracted” members in exactly the same way it treats its heterosexual members.
It is a sentiment that we have heard from LDS leaders and publications, from
friends and family, and on social media. The Church, it is said, only holds its
SSA members to the same standards as it does its hetero members[i]—all are expected
to be equally obedient to the law of chastity. This, according to many a
sincere believer, is equal treatment for LGB and hetero members.
Let’s put paid to that lie right now.